My Female Boss’ Husband Wants To Sleep With Me

I am working with a woman and her husband wants
to have s*x with me. I’m afraid. I have told him that
it’s not right and that if he tries it again, I would tell
her. But he still does it by touching me. He has
promised me heaven and earth if I keep my mouth
shut and not allow his wife suspect what is going
on.
I am staying in their house and the wife is very kind
to me.
What do I do?

E.M, Lagos.
Reply…
Let the man know that you are ready to tell his wife
if he dares touch you again. You should not allow
any opportunity for him to touch you — never be
with him alone. Such a man is irresponsible and
could even r*pe you if nobody is around. If I were
you, I would take some part of my salary to rent a
room somewhere. I am sure that as long as you
remain in his house, he will continue touching you
and you would keep mum. If you don’t want to
betray your boss, move out.
His ex-lover threatens me
I am 23 years old and two men are in love with me.
I met the first guy while having a programme in my
school and we have been on for a year now. The
problem started when his former girlfriend, who has
a son for him called and instructed me never to be
seen with her man again. I told her she was his
past and he loves me more than her.

But I don’t want to deny her son his father’s love
because I know what it feels like to be without a
father. I met the second man at work and he is
crazy about me. I love these men and they are both
promising me marriage.
What do I do?
- N.N, Abuja.
Reply…
The choice of a life partner starts first with God and
then, you. Which of them do you think would make
you happy? Who do you feel at ease with when you
think of a home, children and your future? Have you
really prayed about this because we cannot erase
the God factor in making such a choice? Except you
are deceiving yourself, you know which of the men
to choose but if you are still confused, talk to your
mum.